When I arrived in California four months ago, the first place that I came is my home stay where I did not know anything and I would stay through six months. Even though, I have relatives who live in California, I did not want to stay with them. I wanted to stay with a host family in order to really experience American culture. During the way from LA airport to my home stay, I felt very excited but I also worried about my host family. I did not know who they are or what type of people they are. Are they kind or mean? Would I be able to understand their language? How about their food? Would they like me? It’s like a thousand of question come to my mind. At that time, I was filled with concern. Surprisingly, when I saw the house and met them who are my host family, I did not feel afraid of them. The house is such a nice and snug house that I felt very familiar like my real house. My host parents are so nice and they are very welcome me to their house. They knew that everything was new to me so they tried to help me get used to new environment. They considered me like their daughter; they made me feel very comfortable. They are really like my parents and my teacher. I’m so happy because I have a good host family.
It is so interesting to experience American culture with American people. I can open my knowledge wide. I do not need to do research about American culture. I can ask my host parents anytime if I want to know about their culture. I was so impressed some American culture like holiday, foods and lifestyle. When any holiday comes, we decorate the house and celebrate together. My host parents will tell me about traditional in every holiday. For example, on Halloween day, we dressed up in Halloween’s costumes; we made pumpkin pie and some traditional foods. Before coming here, I did not know much about American culture, I did not know about Thanksgiving Day which we do not have in my country. They told me about the meaning of the day and some traditional foods which cannot be without such as turkey, potato and apple pie. Besides holiday, they also told me so much about their culture or their lifestyle and foods. They are so considerate that I feel very comfortable in their house. They understand that it is not easy for me to stay in America in the first time. They are always willing to help whenever I need their help. They try to help me get used to new culture. They also want to learn about my mother language and the culture in my country. We are having a good time and enjoy with each other. I really experienced American culture with them.
When I came here, everything was so new to me such as language, learning environment, and culture in America. As I said I so worried about that. I did not know whether I could get used to new environment or not. To learn another language is not easy. When I spoke to native people, I was afraid that I could neither speak nor listen well so they could not understand me; also I could not understand them. That’s why I did not feel confident when I speak English. My host parents know that so they want to help me improve my English in order that I feel comfortable when I speak the language which is not my mother language. They usually talk to me every day when they have free time. At first, I could not talk much because I did not know how to say and they told me that I should explain what I’m going to say; then they will help me how to say a perfect sentence. Sometimes, I made a sentence which was right grammar but American do not usually use it in speaking in daily life so they told me how to say correctly. I have learned so much from them. Besides, when I pronounce a word wrong, they will correct it immediately and I have to say the word 10 times. For example, first, I could not pronounce correctly some words which included the letter “x” such as text. When I say 2 words “test” and “text”, they could not recognize which one I mentioned. Then they help me say 2 words correctly. My host mother said that practice makes perfect. Therefore I practiced pronoun the word every day. Now, I have no problem with it. However, I speak English with a Vietnam accent so it makes people hardly to understand me. That’s why my host parents usually strike up a conversation to help me practice speaking fluently. I also learn a lot of new words when I talk to them. I have a bad memory so this is a good way to remember the word easier than learning by heart. In addition, when I did not understand my homework clearly, they explained to me; or I had to write essay, sometimes, but I had no idea. They gave me some suggestions to help me write essay easier. I have learned English not only at school but also at home. My English is much better and I do not feel shy when I speak English now. As a result, I talk to my host parents more often.
Furthermore, they cook very well. Although American foods are so strange to me, their foods are so good then I eat so much. Therefore, I can learn how to cook American foods, Italian foods also from them. Every day, when I come home, we will make dinner together. After that, we enjoy eating together and tell about what happened by day. I feel like this is my family. They take care of me like their daughter. Whenever I have a problem, I can share with them. They will give me some suggestion to overcome it. When I was sick, they worried about me and they took care of me. They said that I’m a member of their family so I should not be shy, I should consider them like my real family; then I will feel more comfortable. When I need their help, I let them know and they will help me with their ability. For example, I do not have transportation to explore the area where I live. They took me to some place when they had free time in order that I do not feel bored. I do not have many friends because I have just been here for 4 months so that I often stay at home with them on weekend. We usually sit around TV, talk to each other and enjoy watching American football. My host parents are a fan of American football. They are so excited when they watch football. They shout for joy very loud and they jump when their team got point. My host parents are so funny. Sometimes, they teased me and they were laughing at me. Some weekend, we hang out together or my host mother will take me to go shopping or we will have nails done together. I’m having a good time with them.
I feel so lucky because I have a good host family in the first time I came here. I remember I was so afraid of them and worried about what will happen if I live with a strange host family. Now, I don’t worry anymore because they are so kind, considerate and funny. They try to help me get used to new environment, new culture. They are not only like my parents but also like my teacher. They take care of me; they care what I’m thinking about. I also learn a lot of thing from them. They consider me like their daughter, a member of their family; not like a person who just rent their room. I’m so happy about that. I know that I have a good choice when I decided to stay in a home stay. Not only it helps me improve my English so much in a short time but also I really experienced American lifestyle and American culture.